You want a cliche?

“…Camp taste draws on a mostly unacknowledged truth of taste: the most refined form of sexual attractiveness (as well as the most refined form of sexual pleasure) consists in going against the grain of one’s sex. What is most beautiful in virile men is something feminine; what is most beautiful in feminine women is something masculine”
                                           -Susan Sontag, Notes on “Camp”, 1964

Still a good one.